Comments on: If You Can’t Say Anything Nice… http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/ Attempting to Unravel the Complex World of California Human Resources Tue, 06 Jan 2009 11:01:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: TaraHR http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-28449 TaraHR Wed, 05 Mar 2008 23:42:52 +0000 http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/#comment-28449 I suspect the situation was that because he was having problems getting employment he had suspicions that it was due to reference problems and that she was set up so that he could obtain evidence to use in Court. I have known of other situations where in the same thing has been done in order to gain evidence. If this is the case, it was done more than once. It pays to simply go by the rules and do the right thing. Even if we don't personally care for an individual they may do well in another position. I feel it is abuse of power to affect another individuals future with more info than we normally give. Afterall, we don't know what might transpire with this person in years to come or what changes this person might make. We are just HR--Not God I suspect the situation was that because he was having problems getting employment he had suspicions that it was due to reference problems and that she was set up so that he could obtain evidence to use in Court. I have known of other situations where in the same thing has been done in order to gain evidence. If this is the case, it was done more than once. It pays to simply go by the rules and do the right thing. Even if we don’t personally care for an individual they may do well in another position. I feel it is abuse of power to affect another individuals future with more info than we normally give. Afterall, we don’t know what might transpire with this person in years to come or what changes this person might make. We are just HR–Not God

]]> By: Just another HR lady... http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-28418 Just another HR lady... Fri, 08 Feb 2008 18:36:00 +0000 http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/#comment-28418 So....his legal case is based on a "fake" person asking for a "fake" reference? Or, if you want to look a little closer, a "stolen identity" asking for a "fake" reference? I wonder what the Target employee whose identity was stolen thought about this? This is the strangest thing I've ever heard, but yes, I agree, if you don't have anything good to say, simply confirm employment dates and title. As for the legal case, good luck, I can't imagine what a court is going to say, particularly when no "real" employment reference was even involved. So….his legal case is based on a “fake” person asking for a “fake” reference? Or, if you want to look a little closer, a “stolen identity” asking for a “fake” reference? I wonder what the Target employee whose identity was stolen thought about this?

This is the strangest thing I’ve ever heard, but yes, I agree, if you don’t have anything good to say, simply confirm employment dates and title.

As for the legal case, good luck, I can’t imagine what a court is going to say, particularly when no “real” employment reference was even involved.

]]> By: Mark http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-28406 Mark Sat, 02 Feb 2008 16:18:25 +0000 http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/#comment-28406 I worked with this guy at Best Buy. I am not using my full name because based on experience, especially in the Philadelphia districts, the management cannot be trusted to not retaliate against employees for expressing their opinion. I work in the district where Ann McCafferty was the former HR Manager and I can tell you from experience that her response does not surprise me. She has a history of only taking care of her "favorite" people and hurting those that she did not like. Not only are her comments about Mike reprehensible, but they are completely false. He did not "suck" as she says, in fact he received good performance reviews and numerous customer service and performance awards from Best Buy during his time in Plymouth Meeting and King of Prussia. Mike was treated very unfairly by the District Manager's and the Human Resources Manager's in both Philly districts. Both districts have a history of promoting only based on nepotism not based on performance. Best Buy's senior management needs to do something about this problem or they will continue to lose quality employees, myself included. I wish Mike the best of luck. He is missed by many of his former colleagues. I worked with this guy at Best Buy. I am not using my full name because based on experience, especially in the Philadelphia districts, the management cannot be trusted to not retaliate against employees for expressing their opinion. I work in the district where Ann McCafferty was the former HR Manager and I can tell you from experience that her response does not surprise me. She has a history of only taking care of her “favorite” people and hurting those that she did not like. Not only are her comments about Mike reprehensible, but they are completely false. He did not “suck” as she says, in fact he received good performance reviews and numerous customer service and performance awards from Best Buy during his time in Plymouth Meeting and King of Prussia. Mike was treated very unfairly by the District Manager’s and the Human Resources Manager’s in both Philly districts. Both districts have a history of promoting only based on nepotism not based on performance. Best Buy’s senior management needs to do something about this problem or they will continue to lose quality employees, myself included. I wish Mike the best of luck. He is missed by many of his former colleagues.

]]> By: HR Wench http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-28405 HR Wench Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:09:50 +0000 http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/#comment-28405 She doesn't really say WHY he sucked though....hmmm. She doesn’t really say WHY he sucked though….hmmm.

]]> By: Eileen, Philadelphia Pennsylvania http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-28403 Eileen, Philadelphia Pennsylvania Fri, 01 Feb 2008 15:10:10 +0000 http://hrlori.com/if-you-cant-say-anything-nice/#comment-28403 While I do feel that what the HR manager did is not defendable I'm going to do just that. She was wrong, but she thought it was a friend from a previous job - who doesn't do that? Many people would, so its easy for all of us to sit back in judgement, but this could easily be anyone. Now this former employee has made her a laughingstock on the entire web and may have cost her her job and reputation. I hope he's eternally happy with himself. While I do feel that what the HR manager did is not defendable I’m going to do just that. She was wrong, but she thought it was a friend from a previous job - who doesn’t do that? Many people would, so its easy for all of us to sit back in judgement, but this could easily be anyone. Now this former employee has made her a laughingstock on the entire web and may have cost her her job and reputation. I hope he’s eternally happy with himself.

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